When someone pushes our buttons …. and we automatically react with impatience, anger, jealously and verbally or physically attack …. it’s more about us than it is them! When we exhibit crippling anxiety, never-ending worry, or feel like we don’t belong in this world, like I have felt …. then it’s most likely due to conditioning ….. and our genders have become out of balance.
We are 2 Genders
Physically we manifest the Law of Gender as being man or woman in our present state of consciousness, but on the mental plane we express both genders …. the male Self-consciousness and the female Sub-consciousness. And this is what we are to work out …. to bring our 2 genders into harmony ….. to round out our character out, making us strong, independent, successful and happy beings.
Fundamentally our mental/emotional Male gender expresses as enthusiasm, intelligence, self reliance …. and our Female mental/emotional expresses as gentleness, intuition, patience and love.
Consider these practices below that I have found very beneficial in my own journey to blend and harmonize the mental feminine and masculine genders. The goal is …. to elevate the frequency of the feminine mental subconsciousness to be …. conscious of Love.
1. See the best
I always had an aversion towards positive thinking in my early years. I had gotten comfortable and in a habit with choosing fear and used to focusing on negativity like worry, loneliness, resentment, depression and sadness.
All that negative energy can keep us frozen and acting like a victim, rather than being in the moment. Yet …. in essence fearful emotions and thinking are opportunities to align with Love within ourselves.
Thus …. go out of your comfort zone …. and make a conscious effort …. to see the best in the moment. Acknowledge the best in yourself and see the best in others, especially during challenging conditions.
We must dare to act and create our happiness …. by aligning with positive energy. Think goodwill, generous, caring thoughts ….. that can grow into goodwill, generous, caring behaviors.
We are negating fear and stepping towards Love, our inner emotional feminine gender, and attracting more positive energy.
2. In the moment
Our most beneficial and useful tool to balance our genders to counteract and release conditioning is to be conscious! Aware. conscious and, in the moment.
Being conscious is guarding the entry to the subconscious! Without more negative thoughts entering the subconscious, it raises in frequency bit by bit …. and any latent positive energies in the subconscious gestate …. to return to our consciousness and reality.
3. Breathe Light & Universal Life Energy
Universal Life Energy harmonizes and balances our inner genders.
A simple, yet very powerful mental gender balancing exercise:
A uneasy thought, flows. Be conscious, mindful. Acknowledge it and let it continue to flow from you, visually blowing it out as dark smoke, exhaling. Breathe in deeply the Light of Universal Life Energy and let It permeate your body, brain and mind, being mindful, conscious and grateful for your authentic power to consciously choose Love and release fear.
Universal Life Energy is the first physical manifestation of the Eternal and naturally balances our genders, mind and love, heart and brain, masculine and feminine qualities.
In meditation we can release our attachment to negative emotional memories in the subconscious ego. We can receive inspirations to embrace enthusiasm for the present and create opportunities for our happiness.
Be outside in nature as often as your Higher Self inspires you. Let your body and aura naturally synchronize with that of the earth’s frequencies and that of the universe. The trees, plants and air all emit harmonizing energies and help you synchronize your own inner masculine and feminine energies and chakras.
When we are around other people our auras and energies interact, push and pull on each other; we manipulate each other. So being in nature we can naturally re-balance our feminine and masculine energies that flow in our body and aura.
We are all on our spiritual journey and have opportunities to grow and raise our consciousness to include Love. Yet, we have to each make our own efforts, as do I. I’ve had help in spiritual teachers. And, so do You! Your great teacher is your Higher Self. Listen.
In the hope You find Love close at hand, PortiaSLB
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“The problem of Completion is continually worked out in life through association of individuals one with another. Women constantly contribute to men some of their qualities, and men do the same toward women.”
Eugene Fersen, Science of Being, page 215.