There are character traits in personality that are ugly but we are strongly attracted to them! Though initially disheartening to see them clearly, it is an opportunity to see them with an understanding Mind and loving Heart in order to release them. They delay our progress to full unity with inner peace and happiness.
If we look deeply we might see the ego’s guilt, anger, resentment and hatred. Perhaps the most subtle attraction is guilt.
Many times we feel we have to sacrifice something in order for companionship to be compatible. And then we feel some level of anger or resentment about it.
Resentment may surface as little attacks to emotionally wound. Then there’s guilt about it! But remember, the ego is attracted to this cycle and considers it justified, therefore attractive!
The subconscious ego believes dark thoughts in mind are private, but everything surfaces to consciousness and the physical eventually through attitudes, emotions, behaviors, even ill health. And even though guilt is hell it’s a self imagine we may stick with.
Thus, when I notice any disruptive feelings I pause and relate to the willingness to release them. That sincere willingness opens us to transcending inspiration to understand, release, and forgive.
Love has no guilt….It loves unconditionally. It is eternally optimistic, understanding and compassionate even when looking at the ugly within us because Love knows the ugly is a temporary image.
We are beautiful souls attracted to the Eternal and all the qualities that we perceive as Life, Mind, Truth and Love. And the sooner we radiate these qualities that we are, the happier we are.
In the hope You find Love close at hand, PSLB
Science of Being 