Our ego wants to find love, but can go about it in wrong or harmful ways. It doesn’t really want to know why it’s that way.
Our appetites, our habits, our impulses and libido shape the way we are. They are our desires, and our desires and motivations shape our reality.
We are all looking for Love because mentally we are not conscious of True Love. But, we unconsciously look for love through desires of the ego. The ego can urge us to look for satisfaction or escape through excessive sex, food, recreational drugs and attention. The subconscious ego feels it is lacking which is based in fear. There is no Trust in Universal Love or Universal Abundance.
We can get comfortable with the urges and impulses of the ego and become addicted to over eating, alcohol, sex, infidelity and porn. Food is to sustain our body, an aspect of love and sex is a divine means of helping us realize Love. But, the ego uses urges and impulses to fulfill itself which can end up harming us.
Our great asset is consciousness or awareness. When we are conscious of our desires and motivations we can exercise our authentic power, the power of our soul and individuality. We can use our will to be motivated by love rather than fear.
When we are conscious of Love and motivated by it, then we shape our reality in it. Our thoughts, emotions and behaviors change and thus our reality changes. We live in the flow of life earnestly with enthusiasm, wisdom and caring. We are conscious of goodwill and act with kindness from the tenderness of our heart.
This changes the way we see the world and live our life. It changes our reality because our reality is shaped by the way we are.
In the hope You find Love close at hand, Portia SLB
“We think inharmoniously, and those thoughts of ours –unaware in most cases as we are that they will some day be visited upon us –act most destructively on us. The same is true of our negative emotions, such as hatred, jealousy, revenge, etc. Even if we feel these emotions toward other individuals, ultimately we are the ones who will be most harmed by indulging them, because of the law of Retribution.”
Eugene Fersen, Science of Being
Science of Being 
Thank You for your insight and inspiration. I love it! Light and Love, Portia SLB
You tell it like it is! So wonderful and Right on! Wonder how many will read and understand this as True?I sure do and I Thank You for saying it in plane words of Wisdom! I hope everyone in the whole Human world can grasp this as it is our biggest problem to work on and Harmonize in our life here right NOW!
There is not one person I can think of that doesn’t have fears, desires and ego all wrapped up in uncontrollable habits. We believe these traits to be our real selves without living True Love for ourselves and others. We waste so much time lost in our emotions and attitudes, yearning to feel right inside and out. We get so lost in our desires of falseness, and even get angry when we don’t get our way with others! Always Love, MelissaLB