
Every spring I enjoyed a rose bush that would grow more beautiful every day. I was so proud of how beautiful it was. But one spring the rosebush gradually begin to yellow and eventually died. I didn’t blame the rosebush. I tried to figure out what went wrong.
Relationships thrive on sincere affection. Like a rosebush relationships grow more beautiful and rewarding with the proper conditions. But if we place blame on someone for problems it causes problems to get worst.
The watcher within
When things go wrong at my house I pause and come to the moment and sincerely ask myself: Am I taking things personally? And am I feeling loving or resentful? I must admit so many times the ego overpowers my emotions and I get angry and I go for revenge and place blame. It causes more trouble.
Our heart center
We live in a conditioned egotistic mindset of duality, right or wrong, yes or no, so it appears to the ego that we have two choices: love or hate (fear). Yet, when we truly come to the moment and you become calm you may realize that the subconscious ego would rather point a finger at someone and be right than take responsibility for itself.
The ego is self-righteous and takes things very personally. But taking things personally and being right causes pains and troubles of the heart, like guilt!
When things flair up in a relationship within it is a great spiritual opportunity to know your True Self. Just be in the moment and aware of your motivation. Know your purpose. Know the tenderness in your own heart. It can give you strength.
Our heart is our Seat of Love. It is also our Center of Attraction since attraction is a quality of love. So when we place blame or hold on to guilt, it is self-righteousness. That energy attracts similar energies and accumulates in the lower frequencies of the heart chakra. Our chest hurts or we can feel broken hearted. And the relationship is in more trouble.
Take these steps
Take responsibility for yourself. Love yourself and place no blame, nor hold guilt. Rather bring harmony and love to the forefront within yourself.
Pause. Come to the moment by bringing your awareness within your body.
And ask yourself what is your motivation.
Take several deep breathes. This helps clear the emotional charges by relaxing the mind and body.
Contact the harmony of Universal Life Energy and release all thoughts.
Release. If you still feel negative charges like blame and guilt in your heart chakra or solar plexus visualize releasing them.
While considering how beautiful a rose is, open to the beauty of the moment, your life and be truly grateful for Life, Intelligence, Truth and Love of Source, the Universe and yourself.
In that moment you may find the healing strength of love and leave the rest in the hands of Source.
In the hope You find Love close at hand, PortiaSLB
“Those who have reached a higher development of mind have the great advantage of feeling the freedom of lifting their Minds into higher regions.”
Eugene Fersen, Pearls of Wisdom, Volume I, page 337.








